Upgrade github actions versions, default python and dev dependencies

[firaskafri]

• Use Python 3.10 in deploy.yml
• Use Python 3.10 in lint.yml
• Update setup-python and checkout versions
• Update .pre-commit-config.yaml
• Match dev dependencies versions with workflows
• make format for examples files and migrations to follow the new black version
• Upgrade pytest version

[kiendang]

We should update the GH action from pypa/gh-action-pypi-publish@v1.1.0 (it's been 3 years) to pypa/gh-action-pypi-publish@release/v1 (the latest v1) as well. See https://github.com/pypa/gh-action-pypi-publish.

Also probably use 3.10 in lint.yml as well just for consistency.

[firaskafri]

@kiendang You are right! Updated the PR and I am on the reset of the points!

[kiendang]

May as well update the other actions to latest versions too, actions/setup-python and actions/checkout.

[kiendang]

Thanks for doing this. I've planned to do this as well since I did the exact same thing for graphql-server recently, but was waiting for #1365 to be merged.

[firaskafri]

@kiendang thank you for reviewing this with me!
Linting is failing though, any idea why could this be happening?

Update: seems to be this https://github.com/graphql-python/graphene-django/blob/c1a22bfd91aa3b298ea8f293b1a9f6ece7a46a8e/.pre-commit-config.yaml#LL2C1-L2C1